Living the life
of a woman
in full.

A pioneer in fertility and sex advocacy, Pamela Madsen is the Founder of Back to the Body™, the Co-Founder of SQUIRM, as well as the Founder and first Executive Director of The American Fertility Association. She is a fearless advocate for women’s health and integrated sexuality who leverages her raw honesty and well-informed wit to help strip the stigma from infertility, female desire and body image.

Pamela is a certified Somatic Sex Educator with a Master's degree in Education who has coached hundreds of women on their own personal journey back into their bodies and their own expression of their Divine Feminine. Pamela is a veteran speaker, educator, and renowned blogger for The Huffington Post, Psychology Today, The Fertility Advocate, and Care2.

She is the author of Shameless: How I Ditched The Diet, Got Naked, Found True Pleasure and Still Got Home In Time To Cook Dinner (Rodale, January 2011). Pamela has appeared on 60 Minutes, Oprah, CNN, AARP Primetime Radio, The Dr. Laura Berman Show, The Jane Pratt Show, and Playboy Radio, as well as countless other media outlets.

What Do I Do? Who Is This For? What Can YOU Gain?


I work with women from around the world, from Dubai to New Orleans. Over these last twenty years as my practice shifted from fertility to sexuality (really the same thing), I have worked with hundreds of women from age 22 to 90 to transform their relationship with their bodies and their understanding of sexuality. If you are ready to live the life of a turned on woman, I will move the obstacles with you to make this happen.

You have the power to live the life you lust after without ditching everything and everyone you cherish. It’s possible to transform yourself from the inside out. It’s all about getting in touch with your own body first. And few people teach this to us. We don’t learn this in school.

What we learn through pleasure we never forget. We learn by doing, not by simply talking. Together we will unearth and learn to channel your sexual energy into all aspects of your life. Over two decades ago, I discovered how to love myself in a brand new way. I shed anxiety like water weight, stopped the judgmental chatter and found happiness reaching for my dreams. I was turned onto life. I was turned on by life. That’s what I’ll help you do — light your pilot light and turn your engine on.

It's time to live a life you only dreamed of.

As a somatic sex educator and long-time internationally known activist for women (I founded The American Fertility Association), I’ve developed a unique coaching program designed to meet you where you are right now and help you get to where you want to be. As one of my clients recently said: "Pamela over promises and over delivers!"

I’ll show you how to tap into and use your sexual energy to power:

  • Your creativity

  • Your professional life and your relationship with money

  • All your relationships including the one with yourself

  • Your true pleasure centers

  • Your orgasm

  • Your self-esteem

  • Your appreciation for your body

  • Shifts in your relationship with dieting and food

Remember, sexual energy is clean, renewable and sustainable. All you have to do is stoke the fire. I’ll show you how to access the tools that you'll need to make this happen:

  • Understand and access your Autonomic Nervous System (ANS) and Sympathetic Nervous System (SNS) to completely change your relationship with your sexual pleasure, arousal, and emotional well being

  • Understand the difference between arousal and orgasm

  • Create a “Pleasure Plan” and break through your "Pleasure Ceilings"

  • Learn embodiment techniques that you're able to do on your own

  • Learn the “Lotus Lift Meditation” – an arousal tool that can support you keeping your sensual energy working at optimal levels (and which I’ve been featured in Oprah for!)

  • Understand "The Erotic Equation"

  • Move through sexual shame

  • Explore your desires — Do you know them? Can you speak them?

  • Learn to to stop enduring and start enjoying sex

  • Work with body shifts such as menopause or dealing with illness

One of the first most important steps is the easiest — decide that you want to change your relationship with your sexuality and your self image. Decide that you want more and you will never want less again.

Ready to take the next step?

Back to the Body is for women who want change, and for women who think they can’t change.

Sign up for a free consultation with my team at Back to the Body™ and learn about all the opportunities to work with us to dramatically shift your relationship to your sexuality, pleasure, and more!

It’s not sex school – it’s self school.